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    My teenage daughter gave me a ‘special wish list’ for her birthday. I decided to give her a reality check

    Kelly WhitewoodBy Kelly WhitewoodJuly 5, 20244 Mins Read
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    Growing up in Alabama, I always did my best to provide my daughter with the greatest opportunities that our family could afford. I was taken aback this year by my 14-year-old daughter’s birthday wish list. Kids used to get a real thrill out of getting a brand-new bike or pants, but those days are over. She instead presented me with a document that seemed more akin to the requests of a Hollywood star.

    I would have never dreamed of requesting such a thing when I was her age. Looking at her list, though, made me question our parenting choices. Is it because I’m too old to understand this generation, or is it because of societal pressures or peer pressure?

    What a Revolutionary List

    In it, you might see:

    Eyelash extensions cost $20, a Victoria’s Secret set is $80, and hair extensions cost what?
    Appointment for Acrylic Nails—$60
    Plus, the most recent iPad Pro
    These requests were too expensive for our middle-class working-class family, and a fourteen-year-old didn’t even need them. No way in hell would I ever consider getting my daughter hair, eyelash, or acrylic nail extensions. What about the newest iPad Pro? To me, that was an unjustifiable luxury.

    The Curriculum

    Giving her a birthday she would never forget was my way of teaching her to be grateful and the importance of money. I needed to prove to her that money couldn’t buy happiness.

    On her special day, I made her a handmade breakfast and presented her with a little package that had been thoughtfully wrapped. She immediately tore it open, hoping to find one of her long-sought possessions within. A brief message reading, “Today, we learn the value of hard work and gratitude” was enclosed.

    A Surprising Day

    For our morning of volunteerism, I brought her to our neighborhood animal shelter. She observed the effects of love and compassion as she fed and cleaned the animals’ cages. Unlike when she received a new device, she ended the morning with a smile on her face—even though it wasn’t what she had anticipated.

    We went to a community center after lunch and helped put food hampers together for the homeless. Kids her age were content with only one piece of food, she saw. She learned a lot about herself and the things she took for granted after going through this.

    A Surprising Present

    Towards the conclusion of the day, I escorted her to a nearby park. I gave her another package as we sat on a bench. A notebook and a pen were inside this time. I informed her that having a journal to record her feelings, goals, and experiences was her true talent.

    Only for the sake of illustration,

    In a perplexed yet moved expression, she met my gaze. “But, mom, what about the iPad and other stuff?” she inquired.

    I tried to reassure her that those things weren’t necessary for her development or happiness. What really counted were her insights into the world, her empathy for others, and her work ethic. I told her we may talk about her desires again when she proved she was mature and responsible.

    A Reversal of Opinion

    I noticed a transformation in her character in the weeks that ensued. Eventually, she got into the habit of saving her allowance for the things she really desired and was much more productive overall. She confided in the journal, and I became her trusted confidante.

    She learned the value of thankfulness and the distinction between desires and needs from this experience. The lessons that form our children’s character and future are often the best gifts we can offer them, and this served as a reminder of that to me.

    One of the most significant and unforgettable days of my daughter’s life was her birthday. It was devoid of material possessions but brimming with life-affirming experiences. I wish that were so. In my opinion, that was the most important lesson of all time.

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