Sir Elton John and his husband, David Furnish, have been a couple for over two decades, and their focus has shifted to raising their two sons, Zachary and Elijah. The couple, who had a whirlwind romance starting in 1993, entered a civil partnership in 2005 and got married in 2014.
Their journey to parenthood was marked by challenges, beginning in 2009 when they connected with a Ukrainian boy named Lev in an orphanage for children with HIV. Despite facing obstacles in adopting Lev, the couple maintained contact and provided support.
This experience made Elton John realize he could be a father, and in 2010, they welcomed their first son, Zachary, via surrogate. Elijah followed in 2013. Despite their busy lives, the couple is committed to being hands-on parents and avoiding reliance on nannies.
Elton John, now 73, has expressed the profound impact fatherhood has had on his life. In a heartfelt letter to his sons, he described them as the greatest gifts, filling his heart with love and his life with purpose.
The couple has also been mindful of instilling values in their children, including an understanding of the value of money. Elton John acknowledged changes in his perspective on money, emphasizing the importance of quality time over extravagant spending. The couple has been teaching their children about spending, saving, and earning money, even providing them with pocket money for completing chores.
Despite their celebrity status, Elton John and David Furnish aim to provide a somewhat normal childhood for their sons. They have taken steps to ensure the children live like locals, enjoying family time outside the confines of their mansion. While aware of the potential downsides of raising children in the spotlight, Elton John appreciates the public’s positive interactions with his family.
The couple strives to balance providing a comfortable life for their children with instilling humility. Elton John has expressed his intention not to leave his entire estate to his sons, emphasizing the potential negative impact of a “silver spoon.” Instead, he aims to find a balance that ensures financial stability without hindering their personal growth.
In a rare glimpse into their family life, Elton John shared a photo featuring their sons with Lady Gaga, their godmother. Fans marveled at how much Zachary and Elijah had grown, expressing admiration for the happy family.
Despite the challenges and complexities of fame, Elton John and David Furnish remain dedicated to nurturing a loving and supportive family environment for their sons.