Lauren Alaina Shuts Down Mom-Shamers Over Bottle-Feeding Newborn Daughter Beni
Country music star Lauren Alaina is speaking out against the wave of unsolicited mom-shaming she’s faced since giving birth to her daughter, Beni Doll Arnold, earlier this June.
In a bold and lighthearted response, Alaina took to social media using a viral trend that features creators turning away from the camera to seemingly speak to someone, then whipping back with a sharp retort—this time aimed at the critics.
“Just because I posted a video of myself washing my daughter’s bottles does not give you the right to shame me and harass me and tell me that I should be breastfeeding my child,” she said.
Alaina explained that she’s been triple feeding—a method involving breastfeeding attempts, bottle feeding, and pumping—due to latching issues her newborn is experiencing. Despite her goal to breastfeed, she’s working closely with lactation and feeding specialists to ensure her daughter gets what she needs.
“She can’t latch properly,” she continued. “So I’m having to bottle feed her, try to latch her, and pump every two hours.”
Her final message to the critics?
“Mind your business. You don’t know me and I don’t know you—and let’s keep it that way. Who said that?”
Welcome, Baby Beni
Lauren and her husband Cam Arnold welcomed baby Beni on June 11, 2025, at 8:44 a.m. The little girl weighed 7 lbs 13 oz and measured 19 inches long.
The name Beni is deeply personal. It honors Alaina’s late grandfather Benny, who played a huge role in her childhood.
“He helped raise me, taught me how to play basketball, and bought me my first karaoke machine. He was very proud of that,” she shared.
Interestingly, the couple later discovered that Beni also means “crimson” in Japanese—a poetic tribute, given that Alaina’s father was a devoted Alabama fan. “It feels like my dad said ‘roll tide’ from heaven and told us how to spell it,” she said.
Beni’s middle name, Doll, is taken from Cam’s late aunt, Lucy Doll Arnold, creating a name full of meaning and legacy.
A Song for Her Daughter and Her Father
Alongside announcing Beni’s birth, Alaina released an emotional new song titled “Heaven Sent,” written for her daughter and in tribute to her father, who passed away last year.
“She came just before Father’s Day. My first without my own father. A day that will forever be hard to me,” Alaina said. “But I now have a new and perfect reason to celebrate it.”
Final Note
Lauren Alaina’s message resonates with many mothers navigating the complex world of infant feeding under public scrutiny. Her unapologetic stance is a reminder that every parent’s journey is different, and what matters most is love, effort, and care.
As she steps into motherhood with strength, humor, and honesty, fans continue to rally behind her—celebrating the artist not just for her music, but for her heart.