Blake Shelton Turns to Keith Urban for Marriage Advice Amid Challenges with Gwen Stefani
While Blake Shelton is known for his humor and laid-back charm on stage and TV, insiders say he’s taking his marriage to Gwen Stefani more seriously than ever. After a few rough patches, Shelton has reportedly sought guidance from Keith Urban, whose nearly 20-year marriage to Nicole Kidman has become a model of endurance and devotion.
Learning from Keith and Nicole’s Example
The two country stars have grown close while filming their new reality competition series The Road, and their conversations have gone well beyond work. According to a source, Shelton sees in Urban’s marriage “a playbook for how to weather the storms.”
“Divorce is not an option,” one insider said, emphasizing that Shelton is determined to make things work. Urban, who has been candid about his own past struggles and the role of open communication in saving his marriage, has inspired Shelton to take a more intentional approach to love and partnership.
Balancing Two Worlds
Shelton and Stefani, married for four years and together for ten, face the constant challenge of maintaining their connection while living largely separate lives. Gwen spends most of her time in Los Angeles, while Blake prefers his Oklahoma ranch — a lifestyle difference that has caused tension.
Instead of ignoring the issue, Shelton has been proactive about closing the distance, taking cues from Urban’s relationship habits. Keith reportedly advised him to schedule weekly check-ins, talk daily no matter the time zone, and keep romance alive with thoughtful gestures like flowers or love notes.
Renewed Connection and Shared Holidays
Sources say Blake has already begun putting Keith’s advice into practice — and the results are showing. He and Gwen are said to be in a stronger place, finding creative ways to stay connected despite their busy lives. The two couples have even started planning a holiday trip together, reflecting how close the Sheltons and Urbans have become.
A Marriage Built on Effort and Faith
Fans know that Blake and Gwen have always been open about their love. For their fourth anniversary, Stefani shared a video montage of their sweetest memories, while Blake commented simply but sincerely, “I love you!!!!” Those moments capture the couple’s public affection — and now, their private determination to keep it real behind the scenes.
A Country Lesson in Commitment
At its heart, Shelton’s story is a reminder of something timeless in country music: loyalty, resilience, and putting love before ego. As one source put it, “He’s not letting fame or distance break what they have.” By taking a page from Keith and Nicole’s enduring partnership, Blake is proving that even in Hollywood marriages, the key ingredients — communication, trust, and persistence — never go out of style.
With Urban’s guidance and a renewed commitment to Gwen, Shelton seems ready to face whatever challenges come their way — because, as he’s made clear, divorce isn’t an option.